Is less is more in a long distance relationship?
I have been pen pals with this guy from another state for two years…big time flirting, why don"t you come see me yada yada yada…it all really meant a lot to both of us.over the holidays, we spent twelve amazing days together, he told me he loves me and that he didn't want us to see other people. Our visit was everything we had both dreamed and more. Here is the problem. I'm back home now, won't see him for four weeks and am trying not to go crazy! I think about him all the time, we talk about every other day but if it were up to me, it would beall day, every day(i know..gross right).Plus we have the 3 hour time difference so our days aren't even in sync. How can I keep from being too much…I don't want to be overwhelming..its not even my personality! I just am completely smitten and I know he is too but he's better at being aloof. Is less more in this situation? Should I play the aloof game too? Maybe miss a couple of his calls and texts and let him miss me? I don't want to be playing games with him…is that ok? why is this so hard for me?

I think that when you talk to him again, tell him exactly how you are feeling, and ask him to do the same. That way, the two of you can make a decision together about what you are or aren't.

Please help me with this relationship question!?

Tags: holidays, sync, yada yada

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